I had a friend who, though once a faithful
follower of Christ, had let the world come between him and the Lord. When he
was facing heart surgery, his wife asked me to pray for him. I said, “I will.
But he might not be happy about what I’m praying for.” I have a family member who has gone from
preaching the word to denying that God exists. He, too, would not be happy if
he knew the nature of my prayers for him (if he believed in prayer, that is).
In both cases, my concern is for their souls, not for their health or
happiness.
Apparently, Paul’s previous letter to the
Corinthians had caused some hurt feelings. You might say that Paul was sorry/not
sorry about it. He felt bad for making them feel bad but their sorrow led
them to repentance and so he was also happy. He could have let his feelings for
their feelings prevent him from saying what needed to be said but Paul knew
that matters of eternal consequence always trump emotional concerns.
We must be careful to follow the Spirit’s
leading when we deal with people’s sensitive issues. There is often a fine line
between saying what needs to be said and going too far. On our own, we tend to
go to one extreme or the other – tiptoeing around the person’s tender feelings
or blasting them with the brutal truth. Perhaps the Holy Spirit will even lead
you to one of these extremes – but don’t go there alone.
Witnessing, confronting, reconciling – tricky
business with friends and family. Enter into it prayerfully so that you, like
Paul, can see repentance as a result – and be sorry/not sorry for the outcome.
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