First Corinthians chapter 13 is known as the “Love Chapter.”
It is quoted at most weddings – and it contains some very good information for
newlyweds. But for the biblical take on romance, give me this passage in
Ephesians any time. Every time.
Love may be patient and kind, but we’re a little wary of
allowing someone else to tell us what patience and kindness look like. But when
we’re told that a husband must love his wife just as Christ loves the church,
there is no doubt that self-sacrifice is involved in living up to that
standard. So, while to the newly and giddily in love, romance may be about
flowers and sweet nothings, to the seasoned lover, true love is so much more –
and less.
I was in a weekly Bible study group that met on the hostess’s
screen porch. One night, the weather turned a little chilly for us Floridians.
As I was sitting there trying to keep warm, I became aware of a little
disturbance from the couple sitting next to me. When I turned to check it out,
I discovered that the husband, without fanfare, had removed his socks and gave
them to his sandal-wearing wife. What could be more romantic than that?
Romance is not love. Without self-sacrifice, romance is an
empty gesture. Self-sacrificial love leaves romance in the dust. Husbands: do
you want to be known as the world’s greatest lover? Love your wife as Christ
loves the church. It will cost you but it will pay you, too: he who loves his
wife loves himself. Win-win.
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