Perhaps
you’ve heard the old illustration about the man who was asked, “Do you still
beat your wife?” Clearly, whether he answered yes or no, he was in
trouble. Similarly, Jesus’ disciples thought there were only two possible
answers to their queries about the man’s blindness – and either way, somebody
had to be to blame.
How
often do we think we know the answers to someone else’s problems? (Probably more
often than we know the answers to our own problems!) We may easily look at
another’s life and see it in stark black and white, while from their
perspective, it is all in shades of gray. And if we knew their story as well as
they do, we might begin to pick up on the gray tones as well.
For
example: I have a friend whose son grew up and made poor choices,
ending up homeless and jobless, with a girlfriend and two small children. My friend
allowed them all to live with her for the sake of the children. My black and
white view of her problem: she should not let her son and his girlfriend
cohabitate in her house. Her gray perspective: what would become of her
helpless grandchildren if she kicked them out? My simplistic answer was
not going to solve her problems.
Jesus
knew the right answer to give to his disciples, just like he does for my
friend. He is always the source of help – and I am not. I have prayed for my
friend and I have encouraged her, but I have never told her what she should do.
The Holy Spirit has chosen to reveal his will to her without my input. That’s
the way it often works when Jesus is the answer!
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